Post-chapter lulls were just beginning when the lights flicked off suddenly. I could hear the excited, expectant murmurs of 200 girls around me, but really had no idea what was going on. There was singing and candles and giggles. This is the most “sorority” this place has ever felt, I thought to myself. Then things started to click. The candle being passed around had a ring attached to it, and a senior who had recently gotten engaged stood up and told us all about her husband